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With so many options,
choosing birth control methods may be
hard. Here are the top questions to ask yourself when making this
decision.
1. How comfortable would I be using a particular birth control method ?
Consider your comfort level when choosing a
birth control method. If you
are not at ease with an option or might not
consistently use it (for any reason), that method is unlikely to be
reliable for you in the long run.
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Decide whether or not a particular method may cause irritation or
discomfort for you or your partner.
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Consider how comfortable you are with touching your body. For women,
some methods like a
diaphragm or NuvaRing require
inserting them into your
vagina and taking them out. For men, using a
condom requires rolling it onto your penis.
It's important to be honest about your feelings regarding these issues.
2. Will the contraceptive prevent
sexually transmitted diseases ?
Condoms (both male and female) are the only
birth control method that
reduces your risk of catching
sexually transmitted infections as well as
HIV (the virus that causes AIDS). Remember, that unless you know for
sure that your partner has no other sex partners and is free of
sexually
transmitted diseases, you are at risk for catching an infection. To
protect yourself, use a condom in addition to any other birth control
method if you fall under this risk category.
Keep in mind that a male condom should NEVER be used at the same time as
a female condom.
3. How important is ease of use and convenience ?
Some birth control methods are more convenient to use than others.
Likewise, some methods are easier to understand. For example, The
Patch
(which only needs to be changed once a week) is more convenient than a
diaphragm (which needs to be with you and inserted before intercourse).
On the same note, receiving a Depo-Provera injection every 3 months is
easier to figure out than using a
Natural Family Planning.
You should honestly evaluate how important these factors are to you and
how your birth control method will fit into your lifestyle.
4. Do I want to have a biological child in the future ?
First, you need to decide if you want a permanent or temporary birth
control method. Whether or not you wish to conceive any (or more)
children can help in this decision. If you are unsure about the future,
consider a temporary method. When choosing one, think about how quickly
you can become pregnant after stopping a particular method.
Also, keep in mind that you may regret choosing a permanent method if
you are young, if you have few or no children, if you are
choosing this method because your partner wants you to, you think it
will solve money issues, and/or you believe this option
will fix relationship problems.
5. How effective do I want my birth control method to be ?
Though some
birth control methods are more reliable than others, no
birth control method is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy except
for abstinence. So, choosing effective birth control is important. In
general, permanent methods and some hormonal ones tend to be the most
reliable.
Effectiveness rates are usually provided as a typical user rate and a
perfect use rate. Normally, methods that require less for you to do tend
to have lower failure rates. Carefully consider how effective you want
your birth control method to be and at what rate you will feel most
comfortable.
6. How would an unplanned pregnancy affect my life ?
Your answer to this question can also help to point you in the right
direction when choosing birth control methods.
It is recommended that you choose a highly effective birth control
method:
If you would perceive an unplanned pregnancy as a potentially
devastating event.
If an unintended pregnancy would seriously impact your plans for the
future
You may feel comfortable using less reliable birth control methods if
you are in a stable relationship, have a reliable source of income,
and/or are planning to have children in the future (but would embrace a
pregnancy should it happen now).
7. Do I have health factors that may limit my choice of contraceptive?
If you have certain health problems or other risk factors, some birth
control methods may not be the safest option for you.
Though there could be health issues that might prevent you from using a
certain method, these are usually rare.
To be safe, before beginning any birth
control contraceptive, always talk with your
doctor first.
Another health factor to consider is whether or not you currently have
or potentially could have been exposed to a sexually
transmitted disease. These situations could also help determine the
safest option for you to choose.
8. What are my religious and moral values ?
If you are morally (ie., vegans may not feel comfortable using vegan
condoms), spiritually or religiously opposed to using certain birth
control methods, there are
natural family planning methods that can be
used successfully - given that both
partners are motivated with this choice. Couples report that these
methods can be a truly rewarding experience once you figure out the
technique that best suits you and become accustomed to it. These methods
usually receive less attention, but do not rule them out until you have
done some research.
Though considered a
Natural Birth Control Method, please note that
Withdrawal Methods is not
an effective birth control choice.
9. How much will the birth control method cost ?
Various costs are associated with each type of contraceptive. When
choosing, keep in mind the following costs (in
addition to the actual contraceptive):
* Prescription methods require routine check-ups
* The insertion and removal of devices (like ParaGard IUD and Implanon)
* Treatment for possible complications
* The cost of
emergency contraception (if your method fails you)
It is helpful to consider the possibility that some of the higher,
one-time costs of certain methods may, over time, be less than the
continued costs of buying
pills,
patches, or
condoms.
10. Am I looking for a contraceptive that offers additional benefits ?
Birth control prevents unwanted pregnancies. The medical risks of
pregnancy/delivery are much higher than the risks of using
any contraceptive.
Some birth control methods provide health benefits in addition to
preventing pregnancy. Examples include:
* The Pill: it can reduce the risk of ovarian and uterine cancers, may
improve acne, and can lessen premenstrual symptoms
* Latex Condoms: these can protect against STD's and HIV
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Progestin-Only
: options like Mirena IUD, Depo Provera
Injection, and Progestin-Only Pills (The Mini Pill) can relieve
cramping and menstrual bleeding. Periods may be less frequent or stop
altogether, which lowers the risk for anemia.
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